The Holidays can be a joyful time, offering a chance to reconnect with friends and family.  But they can also be stressful.  You may feel pressure to buy and give gifts.  Maybe you are worried about money.  The holidays can also be hectic.  there never seems to be enough time to get things done.

Think about the kinds of events that trigger stress for you during the holidays. Then you can focus on one or two things you can do that will help the most to reduce stress.

Preparing for the holidays

1 Know you spending limit. Lack of money is one of the biggest causes of stress during the holiday season.  This year, set a budget, and don’t spend more that you’ve planned.  It’s okay to tell your child that a certain toy costs too much.  Don’t buy gifts that you’ll spend the rest of the year trying to pay off.

2 Give something personal. You can show love and caring with any gift that is meaningful and personal.  It doesn’t have to cost a lot.  Or use words instead of an expensive gift to let people know how important they are to you.  Make a phone call or write a note and share your feelings.

3 Get organized. Make lists or use an appointment book to keep track of tasks to do and events to attend.

4 Share the tasks. You don’t have to do everything yourself.  Share your “to do” list with others.  Spend time with friends and family while you share tasks like decorating, wrapping gifts, and preparing the holiday meal.

5 Learn to say no. It’s okay to say “no” to events that aren’t important to you.  This will give you more time to say “yes” to events that you do want to attend.

6 Be realistic. Try not to put pressure on yourself to create the perfect holiday for your family.  Focus instead on the traditions that make holidays special for you.  And remember that just because it’s a holiday, family problems don’t go away.  If you have a hard time being around you relatives, it’s okay to set limits on you time at events and visits.

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